Overweight gay massage therapist
Well…it can be really easy to just assume he is not comfortable with a male touching a male. If it is a male who is a “female preferred” or “female only”. It may even be something like having large breasts from age or “life.” Been there, done that (I am not 20 anymore)!!Ģ. Women therapists would be more inclined to understand a weight issue, or a cellulite problem, or an “I just feel fat and do NOT want a man to see me half naked” issue. It may also be something as simple as the fact that they may be uncomfortable with their body image. Unfortunately, we usually don’t, nor are they inclined to tell us in most cases. This would be very understandable if we only knew the story behind the request.
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This may be, but not limited to, a father, husband, ex-husband, ex-boyfriend, etc. If it is a female who is a “female preferred” or a “female only”, the choice may be because of a past abuse. We, as therapists, often forget, or don’t think about issues that the client may have. The same can be said for the male client who is booked but is not happy when a male therapist comes out to get him. Since I am so comfortable with a male therapist, I often am flabbergasted when a client comes in and is uncomfortable when a male therapist comes out to get her for the appointment. Maybe it is because guys don’t spend as much time wondering about the where and why for’s, but simply get in there and get the job done. That being said, I know a couple of teeny, tiny, female therapists that can make me squirm and make me scream “UNCLE!”.
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It has just been my experience that a male therapist can often give deeper pressure than most female therapists. This is not to say that one is more capable than the other. Let’s explore a number of variables that may sway a client’s gender choices. Most of therapists are comfortable with receiving our massage from either a male or female therapist.